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Plearnwan - Hua Hin Bangkok

2011-03-08T11:45:00.009+08:00

Who would have thought that a memory trip can be achieved in Bangkok - in no less than a place called "Plearnwan" in Hua Hin, just outside Bangkok. This place is frequented more by local Thais than tourists as almost everything is in Thai (that's the usual practice outside of Bangkok).

What makes this place special? Well, imagine a slice of 60s-70s re-created from the music, food and the furnishings. The entire place is constructed in wood, just like the ol' days. Here's a pic of the amazing entrance:

There are food stalls lines up waiting to satisfy your hunger pangs - although the food are still made in the traditional hand-made way (which means you have to wait a while for the food to be ready):

Sit-down eateries along the walkway also satisfy the taste-buds and stomachs of hungry travelers - this dish is essentially fried eggs (fried to crisp):

Memorabilia from the 60s dot the entire place with old promotional screens jostling for precious space with the old barber's chair:

Even old cups and food containers (tingkats) have their day to bask in the glory of the ol' 60s:

For those game for an overnighter, lodgings can be arranged at a motel that's conveniently located just above the main walkway:

Don't forget to bring back some souvenirs (how about some cool looking T-shirts or a handmade sugar rose) before heading back to never-sleeping Bangkok!

Have a fun day-trip there!

Pics from Santana Concert March 2011 (BKK)

2011-03-08T09:54:00.002+08:00

Time flew by from July 2010 to Jan 2011....

2011-01-11T14:26:00.003+08:00

Time has certainly flew by - I just realized that my blog has not been updated for the past few months from July 2010 all the way to what is now Jan 2011 (some 7 long months!)

What have I been up to all these months? Well, I believe the reason for my absence from this blog is my latest love, photography. Hopefully this love will last for a longer time compared to my jewelery & bellydance loves which are about 2 years + each. I have also completed my Basic and Advanced Level DSLR courses as well as the Travel photography course (all at Knowledge Bowl). Did some museum walks ranging from The National Museum, Asian Civilizations Museum, Singapore Art Museum, The Peranakan Museum, Raffles Museum of Biodiversity Research (that was a mind-boggling expedition), Mint Museum of Toys to Singapore Philatelic Museum. Did some reservoir photos (mainly at MacRitchie & Seletar). Visited Bangkok 2x in Nov & Dec 10. Many of my escapes are blogged in http://accidentalsingaporetourist.blogspot.com/ or uploaded in http://jpgmag.com/people/magteoyong

iPad phenomenon

2010-07-29T10:01:00.003+08:00

I got that iPad last Friday- actually hub went to q with a friend & ended up getting one as well :) I have been checking out the apps that I can put into my iPad & found that several of my fav apps (ie games) cannot be uploaded into my iPad as they aren't HD ready....the iPhone apps basically looks that same size when you upload it on the iPad. Here's a screenshot of my 2nd page iPad screen so far...

Considering that I have 12 pages of apps in my iPhone, 2 pages on the iPad is actually quoter manageable & with few HD ready apps, I actually uploaded apps that aren't in my iPhone e.g. Reuters, Forbes, BBC, Times etc...

What I LOVE about the iPad? Its weight wins hands down. It's even lighter than the usual book & even my net book & needless to say, my (ex) MacBook......it also wins for the screen size which is frankly much larger than the net books & of course less bulky with the option of landscape views....

What I dislike about my iPad? When I first got it, it was the fact that I had to upgrade my MacBook cos of the higher operating system required. But then my hub got an iMac so that dislike quickly went away once we got that beauty into the house on Sunday:) now, the peeve is the lack of accessories in the shops - specifically the camera kit. I gave up on the local stores getting it so I just went online. I can't wait for my camera kit to arrive from US so that I can try it out when doing my shots for my other blog "Accidental tourist in Singapore"....

Wish me luck!

Chinese Tingkat Tour 2010 (Singapore Food Festival)

2010-07-26T14:56:00.002+08:00

Make your own free picture collage

Collage of the pictures taken on a Chinese bumboat taken last Friday to have a short boat ride along Singapore River. Part of the Singapore Food Festival activity where a menu of traditional Chinese Dialect food is served in a special container called "tingkat". The food sampled include nice little treats like Teochew Carrot Cake, Hainanese Chicken rice balls, Cantonese fu chok tong shui, Fried Hokkient mee & Hakka soon kueh.

Farewell to Bhutan

2010-07-07T11:44:00.002+08:00

When I wrote this, I was sitting in Paro airport waiting to board the only flight out of

Bhutan

to Bangkok ETD 1150am.

My room-mate asked me this morning if I am happy to leave Bhutan. I replied that I am neither happy or sad to leave as although I have enjoyed my 8 full days of travelling in Bhutan, I am grateful for the experience yet thankful to be back home soon in Singapore.

My most memorable experience in Bhutan is the sight of Tiger's Nest or Taktshang Monastery in Paro. I opted for a horse ride up to the holy place which is some 45mins-1hr by walking. It was an enjoyable albeit sometimes nerve wreaking experience as the horse tended to trot along the cliff edge as it goes up the mountain side.

What was special for me to lay eyes on the monastery is that it has come to represent Bhutan to me. In almost every literature about Bhutan, a picture of this monastery will be shown. It really looks like it is etched along the cliff; perched precariously against it almost as if it was about to drop off the cliff side. I walked up to the 2nd viewpoint at 3140m to enjoy the view of the famous landmark before heading down to the cafeteria at 2940m for lunch. Here’s my fav pictures of the Taktshang Monastery:

After the walk downhill back to where the bus waits, the group decided to head down to Paro town for a quick 1.5hr shopping. I purchased some trinkets in the form of silver boxes, containers. I also managed to get some rare 3D stamps of the various festival masks used in

Bhutan

. This was an enjoyable little excursion for me.

After heading back to the hotel, I arranged for a relaxing hour of massage with the help of the guide, Tsenchou from one of the shop in town. It was definitely expensive at USD50 but I really needed some help with the pain in my calves!! I guess it is largely due to the non stop walking for the past few days especially the trekking part for close to 1000m.

What won't I miss about Bhutan? The flies or rather those that tend to fly into your nose/ mouth when you walk up to the monasteries or along the trek.

Save for the little peeve, Bhutan is a place that is just as I imagined - the rural untouched & gorgeously beautiful Shangri-la.

Bhutan Trek from days 5-7 in Bhutan i.e. 16-18 June 2010

2010-07-07T11:28:00.006+08:00

The guidebook said that trekking in

Bhutan

offers the best opportunity to experience the “real

Bhutan

”. I cannot agree more although it was definitely the most challenging part for me personally for the whole trip. I think the altitude didn’t help with the “mini expedition”. I could hear the thumping of my heart throughout the entire 7 hours or so trek on the 1st day and will totally agree with my pre-trip assessment that this part of the trip is and will be a “once in lifetime experience” for me.

The trek started at Haa valley. This place is, according to the guidebook, only opened to tourists on 2001. We arrived in Haa valley after a drive through the Chele-la Pass from Paro which is also the highest drivable road in Bhutan at 3810m.

The town of Haa is essentially a training camp for Bhutan army by the Indian army. Wheat is grown here instead of rice as its elevation is higher than Paro at 2670m.

The start of the trek is from a place called Kajena where we met with our trekking crew of 8 including a 13 year-old (!!) horseman. The crew basically helps to set up camp, cook & serve meals. All the personal gear, tents, kitchen & foodie carried by 7 horses.

On the way to the camp, we stopped for lunch at a meadow that was a nice retreat from the heat that was unexpectedly accompanying me along the trek (together with the flies and little bugs). I discovered that I actually don't enjoy trekking as it is really tough on my body, legs, knees and breathing especially at high altitudes.

Even though camping is something I quite like (maybe from my guiding days), camping in the cold and staying awake because of the cold is really not any fun for me as well.

On the 2nd day of the trek, instead of another trek, I chose to stay in camp and didn't do anything much except sleeping away my headache. I only started to wander around 3 pm by taking about an hour's walk around the campsite area. Here’s the picks of the trek photos (mostly taken using PnS):

Me pointing to the location of the end of my trek - base camp!!

16Jun10_HaaValley_Luxury Tent

17Jun10_HaaValley_Campsite

17Jun10_HaaValley_CookTent

HaaValley_Campfire

What I love about the trek period was the silence and sitting around the fireplace at the evening after dinner. The food cooked by the chef was a good eat and welcoming especially in the cold.

I managed to see the Blue Poppy, the reason for the arduous trek on the evening of day 2 and a whole meadow filled with them on my way down from base camp back to Haa valley on day 3 (18 June 2010). It was a gorgeous sight. According to the guidebook, the Blue Poppy only grows in the altitude of 3500-5500m and only blooms after May and before July every year. Here’s my fav picture of Bhutan’s national flower.

HaaValley_BluePoppy

Bhutan trip 11-20 June 2010 - Days 3 & 4

2010-07-02T18:11:00.009+08:00

Frankly, my 3rd day in Bhutan passed by in a blur. I recall visiting the Khamsum Yuelley Namgyal Chorten (Stupa) on the morning after a 1 hour or so hike. After that, we stopped over at the Punakha Dzong, reputedly one of the most famous dzongs in Bhutan before heading down to a temple dedicated to Drukpa Kunley, popularly known as the Divine Mad Man that spread Buddhism through unorthodox methods. People in that area usually have phalluses adorn their walls as a means of reminding themselves of him. My fav shots for each of the sights for Day 3:

14Jun10_Punakha_KhamsumYulleyNamgyalChorten

14Jun10_Punakha_KhamsumYulleyNamgyalChorten_WayUp_Padi

14Jun10_Punakha_Dzong

14Jun10_Punakha_Dzong_Monks

14Jun10_Punakha_ChimeLhakhang

14Jun10_Punakha_ChimeLhakhang_OntheWayUp_Lady

14Jun10_Punakha_DivineMadman_Shop_Way Up

Day 4 was not any better for me as I think I am still adjusting to the altitude differences in all the places that I was travelling to. From Punakha, we travelled back to Paro before heading for Haa Valley via the Chele-la pass, which at 3812m (although the itinerary said over 4000m) is the highlest drivable road in Bhutan. We stopped over at the National Institute for Zorig Chusum in Paro for a quick tour round the school who conducts classes for aspiring artisans. I cannot but be awed by their skill and patience as some take 6 years just to graduate from their art before they can venture out to practice their skill. Mind you, one false line drawn or wrong knock on the wood equates to a discarded item! Commendable!!

15Jun10_Thimphu_NatlInstChusum_Embroidery

15Jun10_Chele-laPass_Monks

Till the next post.....

Bhutan trip 11-20 June 2010 - Day 2

2010-07-02T17:52:00.008+08:00

I woke up in Thimphu on day 2 in

Bhutan

. I took a walk along Thimphu town before morning breakfast and sighted many colorful Buddhist motifs (usually the 8 lucky symbols) painted on the pillars and buildings. I do think

Bhutan

has the prettiest petrol stations and bridges as even those are painted all over!! My fav shots with a monk walking along the painted bridge and the most beautiful petrol station...

Part of the Sunday morning was spent at the weekend market. I managed to get a nice scarf cum belt for US10. A bridge links between the handicraft and the wet market sections. All of Thimphu's residents purchase their fresh produce for the week at the wet market section. The fresh produce market gives a nice authentic feeling to the whole place to save it from being too touristy. Here are my fav shot (1) Lady I got my scarf cum belt from (2) Bridge the links the 2 sections

We had a quick stop at the Takin Preserve to take a look at the adult and baby Takin, the National Animal of Bhutan before continuing upwards to a scenic spot filled with prayer flags for a bird’s eye view over Thimphu. Frankly, the prayer flags is to me, what is unique about Bhutan and countries in the Himalayan regions as somehow when you see the prayer flags, I am reminded about the place and how its religion is inter-twined with the country. Here’s my fav shot of the prayer flags:

A quick stop-over at a nunnery dedicated to a Tibetan saint called “Iron Bridge Builder” before proceeding down to Punakha, another 3 hour drive from Thimphu. Along the way, we passed by Dochu-la which is at 3050m elevation. Had a tea stop near the 108 chortens where I tasted (and didn't like) butter milk tea. I will have 2 nights’ rest over at Meri Pusuam, a quaint little hotel on a hill at Punakha Valley.

That's the end of my 2nd day. Till my next blog entry!!

Bhutan trip 11-20 June 2010 - Day 1

2010-07-02T17:30:00.009+08:00

I woke up at 3a.m. in Bangkok for a 3.50a.m. checkin for the 5.50a.m. flight using

Bhutan

’s national carrier, “Druk Air”, the only flight that travels from Bangkok to the only airport in

Bhutan

that is in the area of Paro. We touched down in Paro at 750a.m.

Bhutan

is 1 hour behind Bangkok i.e. 2 hours behind

Singapore

The touchdown was fairly exciting as the plane had to navigate through a maze of the mountains and valleys and flight path was almost in a zigzag manner. I managed to get exciting birds-eye view of the flight path.

For the first few moments after touchdown, passengers like me was busy taking photos of the exquisite airport with the intricate carvings and paintings. Immigration for 11 pax took some time as there was only 1 copy of the group visa for us to gain entry into the country. Here’s my fav shot of the airport.

According to the pilot in our group, the flight path to Paro including its runway is very special as it is very short and high using plain old visual flight rules i.e. pilot must be able to see the runway before landing and the surrounding hills before takeoff. This means that no flights can be operated at night or in poor visibility.

My first impression of Bhutan was that it was certainly a lovely country – filled with rolling mountains as far as the eye can see, clean crisp air (as long as the trucks do not blow their exhaust in your face), warm sunshine (although frankly, it was much hotter than I expected) and the bluest of sky.

Throughout the trip, I was guided by Mr. Tsencho who was impressive with his English speaking skills and knowledge of Bhutan. It was thus not surprising for me that I later found out that he is the representative of Bhutan’s travel agents and involved in discussions with the government covering tourism sector. His assistant (Pelden) also spoke English very well.

After stopping for some aerial shots of the Paro airport, we stopped by the National Museum of Bhutan. BTW no photography in the museums, dzongs, temples so I have no photos related to that…. I noticed all the walls and pillars (both outside & inside of the building) are adorned with carvings or paintings. The National Museum has an interesting collection of both mythical and historical items where items supposedly used by spirits, deities and those of more modern creations like famous Bhutanese philatelic collection stamps where 3D stamps, record playing stamps are displayed. I was so fascinated by their stamps that I got my own set of 3D stamps on the last day of my travels.

What was intriguing was that all the work is mainly done by hand i.e. the paintings on the houses were painted by artisans directly on its walls after using stencils to draw outline using white powder. Paintings (murals) on the temple walls were done on canvas 1st after measuring the size of the walls from top to bottom. In the early days, painting was done using natural dyes which needed to be repainted 10-12 years. In the past, paintings were only done on houses owned by wealthy folks but it gradually became more popular. Many of these artisans were trained by the National Institute.

Bhutan is located in the earthquake zone so there are regulations to state that houses cannot be higher than 3 floors. In other words, no high rise to block the spectacular views!

The guide explained that education is free for Bhutanese. English is learnt from young together with the Bhutanese language. Even the small children speak excellent English!

As I was holding onto my newly purchased DSLR, he advised us to ask for permission before taking a photo of a person by saying "kuzuzangbo la" or “hello” in Bhutanese & the “la” added as a sign of respect. I am pleasantly surprised that somehow, when I made the greeting, a smile will be reciprocated especially from a child. It appears that photography is very much still a novelty in Bhutan. To me, this is surprising as there really aren’t many countries that come to my mind when considering this. I am particularly intrigued by the children's faces as it is apparent that innocence can be seen in their faces. The guide also shared that Bhutan does not have aging issues as a normal family will generally have 3 children.

Here’s my favorite shot of the Bhutan children.

Here’s my favorite dog shot as r
oaming dogs are a common sight in Bhutan’s streets. I read that it is partly because Bhutanese, being devout Buddhists, do not believe in killing animals. They are generally seen everywhere sometimes in packs of 5-6 but there was never a time that I saw an aggressive dog in Bhutan. Perhaps the zen-ness of Buddhism got to them as well!

Another common sight is the prayer wheels. Some are even generated by hydraulics where water is used to turn the prayer wheel. You can hear the prayer wheel as it touches the bell whether due to human effort or water action…remembering the sound resonates of Bhutan….

Before a drive from Paro to Thimphu, we chanced upon an archery competition at the side. Archery is a national sport in this country with the young playing alongside the old. I saw quite a few Bhutanese undertaking archery throughout my trip. With the target at 140m away, it’s definitely not easy to hit the target! Nearby was a group of singers and dancers akin to cheerleaders for the team. I spent a delightful time watching the archery and here’s my favorite shot of an elderly archer.

The drive took me along the windy Bhutanese roads – unfortunately, the mode of transport for the next few days will be road as there is essentially no other means of going from one place to another....either that, or by foot…..

After a 2 hour drive, I checked into the headrest at Thimphu before heading down to the National Memorial Chorten (Thimphu) for some sightseeing. There were many elderly people chanting near the prayer wheel section. The guide explained that Buddhism believes in reincarnation and as such, the elderly (after the elderly are too old to work on the fields, they usually congregate at the chortens/ dzong (temple) to pray for the past, present and future for themselves and their family. He also explained that for Buddhists, one has to walk in a clockwise direction around the chorten or dzong as it is said to be a ritual that was conducted by the attendees of Buddha after he attained enlightenment. At the Memorial Chorten, I saw a few old ladies grinding their betel nuts. They exhibited great spirit and gamely offered some of their betel nuts for us to try. They were also very open and happy to allow us to take their photos. Here’s my favorite shot of the ladies.

That's the end of my 1st day. I will definitely come round to penning down other parts of my Bhutan trip...well then, till my next blog entry!!

What I have been up to?

2010-06-08T13:56:00.007+08:00

For starters, I went in a totally new direction for my career. Most were surprised but I am thankful. To me, they extended a helping hand when everyone else’s arms were folded tightly behind their backs. I must give this a shot & find the love I always had for the work that I do.

Image from Wikipedia.

Another joy I hope to last for a lifetime is photography. I enrolled in a short weekend course & discovered that EVERYONE owns a DSLR so promptly went out & got myself a Nikon D90. I hope that I have made a right choice. Found out later that it’s the start of a long lasting “love-hate” relationship as there are cleaning cloths, lens, filters, remote (timer is the other option), camera bags, tripod etc to purchase on top of the usual stuff. So far, have been monitoring my purchases so that I can keep to the bare minimum (hopefully) whilst being able to learn how to take some nice shots of my kiddos & places I visit. Actually quite happy to have taken up this hobby as I have now been to places that I have not even stepped in for my entire lifetime in my own home country so this is giving me the perfect excuse to roam the streets! My photography escapades are in another blog that I set up just for this…hop by to http://accidentalsingaporetourist.blogspot.com/ :)

Make a digital collage

Segway is way cool!

2010-04-05T07:29:00.000+08:00

Days of Museum hopping

2010-03-03T21:04:00.004+08:00

Have been taking some time to visit the lovely museums & exhibitions in Singapore since I recently found that I got some time on my hands :)

It's actually quite amazing that we have so much interesting stuff going on......

1st stop was naturally the National Museum with the Quest for Immortality (Egyptian mummies) exhibition coupled with the guided tour. It was AWESOME! Definitely worth the $ spent as got education and an afternoon of bliss.....

Next, I took another day to drop by Jurong (yep, took a train down all the way down to the other end of the world) to catch the Bodyworlds exhibition at Science Centre. Can't say that it was enjoyable but it will definitely make me think back whenever I don't want to wake up for my morning walks :) Did a slight detour to Omni Theatre to catch "Under the Sea" movie. Another wonderful "me" day spent......

Next museum stop was the Peranakan Museum. This time round with my Friends of the Museum (FOM) card, I got free entry into the place. Decided to walk around on my own for that day & after seeing the amazing beading being done by predecessors by young women who stayed at home doing all the beading in preparation for their wedding day...hmmm..........tried doing some beading myself (the authentic way using potong beads) & managed to complete 3 pairs of beaded shoes. My problem after the beading (which resulted in my eyes doing double shifts) was that I just couldn't find a reasonably priced person who could do them into proper shoes :)

In short, I had an enjoyable "me" time before dropping by Philatelic (Stamp) Museum round the corner along that same road. It was ok considering it was quite a nice quaint place. Managed to get some nice stamps for the sponsored kids in Vietnam & Bangladesh though at $2.50 for a set :) Pity that my FOM card didn't get me free admission though....

The last museum I dropped by was Asian Civilisation Museum to catch the "Treasury of the World: Jewelled Arts of India in the Age of the Mughals". That's the plan at least but I didn't manage to go much around there after taking the guided tour so I will going back there on Fri.

Eighteen Random Rules of Life 656.2

2010-02-08T11:30:00.002+08:00

Lovely reminders from Michael Josephson:

"I love maxims, those concise capsules of worldly wisdom. I collect them and write them and, of course, love to share them. Here are 18 random rules of life worth posting on your mirror or, better yet, using as dinner-time discussion starters.

Find the lesson in every failure and you’ll never fail.
The likelihood that you’re right is not increased by the intensity of your conviction.
Real friends help you feel worthy and make you want to be better.
When you’re in a hole, stop digging.
Don’t confuse fun with fulfillment or pleasure with happiness.
Refusing to let go of a grudge is refusing to use the key that will set you free.
Hating hurts you more than the person you hate.
Counting on luck is counting on random chance. Your odds are much better when you plan and work.
Being kind is better than being clever.
Don’t underestimate the power of persistence.
The easy way is rarely the best way.
It’s much easier to burst someone else’s bubble than to blow up your own.
You can’t avoid pain, but you can avoid suffering.
Self-pity is a losing strategy. It repels others and weakens you.
Shortcuts usually produce short success.
Control your attitude or it will control you.
It’s more important to be significant than successful.
The world is waiting for you to heal it.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts."

thanks for your well wishes!

2010-02-06T23:42:00.001+08:00

Nice words from Cheryl Richardson's "Uncertainty....Finding Peace Within a Storm"

2010-01-26T14:08:00.000+08:00

I wish that all who are going through uncertainty (just like me at this moment) to be reminded of the following words that I extracted from a newsletter Cheryl Richardson (life coach) (newsletter@cherylrichardson.com).

"............I don't know about you, but it's challenging for me to be patient, to live with uncertainty, or to sit still in a storm. I'm restless, impatient, and far more interested in getting answers than being with questions. But, therein lies the beauty of transition and change. It forces us to grow, to strengthen our spiritual maturity, and to fall out of the comfortably numb rut that eventually leads to regret and unbearable pain.

Our conversation reminded me of the well-known passage from Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke.

If you're experiencing a difficult time, do yourself a favor and use this quote to help stabilize the rough waters of your busy mind. Take your time and read it with your heart, not your head. It's a message that gently reminds us that life is about staying with and living the journey, not waiting to arrive at a destination.

Have patience with everything
unresolved in your heart and try to
love the questions themselves, as if they
were locked rooms, or books
written in a very foreign language.
Don't search for the answers,
which could not be given to you
now, because you would not be
able to live them. And the point
is to live everything. Live the
questions now. Perhaps then, someday
far in the future, you will gradually,
without even noticing it, live
your way into the answer.

~Rainer Maria Rilke"

A quote from Motivational Quotes

2010-01-21T14:45:00.001+08:00

The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting
otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem.

- Theodore Rubin

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Magdalene

Recent trip down to my FAV place....

2010-01-16T21:59:00.013+08:00

Made a trip down BKK again in Dec - this time down to Kanchanaburi (about 2 hrs from central BKK). Had some pretty interesting experiences during this trip so here goes....

Went down to Bridge Over River Kwai - walked along the rail & tried to imagine how things could have been done during WWII. Amazing humbling experience.

Experienced staying along the river banks at this quaint (aka quiet) Thai style resort called "Ban Mai Chaiklung Resort". Kids had a wonderful time just lazing around, taking a dip in the "working" river.

Here's a clip of an unexpected dip in by my boy.....

At night, we visited this lovely floating market called "Amphawa" where we had our fill of seafood & shopping (for me, the stalls had more authenticity to it as you don't actually see many tourists & of course, lovely Thai handiwork)...

Made a trip down to the market on the railway tracks in Samut Songkram province, commonly known as “Mae Klong”. View the clip to see what's the big deal with this market....

This happens EVERY SINGLE DAY & tourists come by just to see this unusual spectacle. For the local folks, it's BAU (Business as Usual). BTW the pic on the left is how the market looks like before the train passes through....wonder how the stallholders know when the train's coming exactly every single time??

Also managed to take a trip down Erawan National Park with (as usual) breath-taking waterfalls....the waterfalls are lovely & (as usual) kids couldn't resist taking the usual dip into the extremely inviting water :)

All in all another lovely vacation to my fav haunt for many many years to come!

happy new year!!

2009-12-30T17:57:00.001+08:00

you say it best when you say nothing at all

2009-12-22T10:56:00.001+08:00

you say it best when you say nothing at all

what does it mean? to some, it's best when their partner says nothing
at all times. for others, it describes the beauty of the unspoken word
that only their loved one can give; the connection that allows each
other to complete the sentences.

what's your take?

Magdalene

lovely settings to wake up to :)

2009-12-22T10:49:00.002+08:00

best sticky rice with mango ever!!

2009-12-20T19:49:00.001+08:00

this is heaven!! green river hill resort - Thailand

2009-12-19T14:43:00.001+08:00

Michael Josephson "The Box Full of Love"

2009-10-12T16:28:00.001+08:00

Lovely story of the beauty of being human:
"Todd was a sadly quiet 11-year-old struggling to adjust to the death of his mother. His father had left long ago, and Todd was living with an aunt who made it known she resented the responsibility.
On several occasions, his teacher Sheryl heard his aunt tell him, “If it weren’t for my generosity, you’d be a homeless orphan.”
Sheryl took extra pains to make Todd feel valued in class and encouraged his interest in making things. Just before Christmas break, Todd shyly presented her with a small decorated box he’d made.
“It’s beautiful,” Sheryl gushed.
Todd replied, “There’s something special inside that my mom gave me before she died. She said it’s the one thing I can give and still have plenty left over. It helps you feel better when you’re sad and safe when you’re scared."
As Sheryl started to open the box, Todd warned her, “Oh, you can’t see it.”
Sure enough, the box was empty.
“Well, what is it?” Sheryl asked kindly.
“It’s love. You’re the first person since my mom whom I love.”
Sheryl hugged Todd tightly. “I’ll treasure this forever," she said. "It’s the best gift I ever got.”
She kept it on her desk until she retired and touched it whenever she was sad or scared. It never failed to make her heart smile.
Years later, Todd sent her the tassel he wore during his graduation from medical school. It’s been in the box ever since.
In truth, love – not diamonds – is the gift that keeps on giving. What’s more, love generates itself. The more you give away, the more you have left."

4 sep:

2009-10-10T15:30:00.000+08:00

4 sep:
took the GoldenPassLine -Paroramic train from Interlarken through
Zweisimmen onto Montreaux. the train ride started at 908hrs from
Interlarken. I reserved seating for an extra chf10 but turned out to
be unnecessary as not quite high season.

anyway, I must admit that I was a tad disappointed cos I expected an
extremely scenic route with a special train. turned out to be quite
normal route - maybe a little more scenic than the route I took the
day before with the bus-train-boat excursion. the panoramic part is
the all enclosed trains that you switch midway at Zweisimmen. the bad
thing is that it kills the photo shots cos reflection. with the normal
trains, you can lower down the windows in some sections so in that
sense, the paroramic trains aren't too fabulous.

if given another chance, will stay at Interlarken another day to take
the old trains up the other mountains, caves visit or cruise down lake
thun. especially considering what's going to happen to me at Montreux,
my next stop.

reached Montreux at 1413hrs. weather was horrid when I reached-
rained. the hotel I booked was Best Western supposedly a 4* but trust
me, the Backpackers lodge I stayed at Interlarken is 10X better in
terms of price, quality & cleanliness. the booking sheet also didn't
have the good instructions on how to get to that place-just said 5mins
away from station. yah right!!! 5 mins down a staircase that only one
who is familiar with the area knows. imagine me braving the rain,
pulling luggage & with nothing except my wits to bring me to an less
than satisfactory hotel that smelled damp, unwashed and right next to
the road.

to think I was telling myself in interlarken that I will enjoy a nice
cheese fondue dinner when I stay at this place!! decided to spend my
cash at a concert instead (part of the Festival De Musique Classique
Montreau-Vevey that runs from Aug-Sep). had to take bus down to Vevey
-20 mins from Montreu.

personally, the nice thing about this area compared to the other
places in Switzerland is the fact that they speak in French instead of
Swiss-German or German. "bonjour" just sounds nicer as a "hello" in
German/Swiss-German. the servers/ shop owners also seem more
friendlier than in main Switzerland to me.

after booking ticket for CelloTango (cheapest was chf35), walked down
the shopping area & got some souvenirs like lace hankies, Freddy
mercury tshirt for dan, musical box for kids & some jewellery. trotted
down to see Freddy mercury's statute next to the waterfront- by then
weather was even more horrid with the waves swelling & hitting the
water banks. am so glad I didnt take another lake cruise.

went down to local grocer to pick up tomorrow's bfast (croissant with
salad & apple juice) before heading back hotel for quick washup before
making my way down to Vevey theatre. I very much liked the Vevey area
better than Montreux. the ambience & shops are more unique - reminds
me of like Kensington area in London. montreux station was dark &
gloomy whereas Vevey station was nicer with a big open square area.

did a nice walk around that Vevey area as I was there by 6 - just
wanted to make sure I find the theatre before it gets dark at around
730pm. bummer is that there is not much food options after 6 - many
drinks but food's limited to Indian or pizza before 8. so ended up at
macs again - lucky that there was a shopping centre at the Vevey area.

concert started at 8pm - maybe too tired but I didn't like the fact
that the cellist had to go his speeches after EVERY single piece he
played. in 1hr, only 3 pieces cos his in-between speeches in french
took just as long as each piece!!

the concert was packed though - guess concerts are as big as they say
in switzerland after all. I left during the intermission as it was 9pm
by then as I needed to get up by 6am tomorrow for the connecting
trains to zurich airport.

tomorrow morning is my train to Zurich airport via Laussane. it was
the 1st time I had a train cancelled on me the whole week I am in
switzerland. panicked a bit cos again all announcements in French & no
info on alternative trains at the station...anyways, managed to make
my way down to airport in good time cos did Internet check-in earlier.

Magdalene

Castles in the sand

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Playing tour guide @ merlion

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Shot of F1 circuit

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day 1 Zurich

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day 1 Zurich
reached Zurich ard 730am-company booked Ascot hotel as 5 mins away
from office & 15mins from airport. Ascot Hotel is just in front of
train station "Bahnhof Enge". the hotel reminded me of London's hotel-
a bit old, a bit quaint)

After unpacking & a shower, I took a 20 walk down to waterfront of
Zurich lake - partly cos unfamiliar with the roads. a bit confusing
which is pedestrian & which is for cars & trams. whilst walking,
stumbled across this little garden in between building in the middle
of the courtyard. it was a nice breathing space from all the
architecture around - found out later that the location is
"Paradeplatz" (heart of Bahnofstrasse (main shopping street that's
comparable to London's Bond Street) . I managed to make my way down to
Fraubmunster (originally Benedictine abbey church now Reformist/
Protestant). Couldn't go in cos Sunday mass was underway. Took some
photos before walking across to Grossmunster/Great church whose twin
towers are the most recognized landmark in Zurich. Nearby is a
touristy shop where you can get souvenirs starting from chf 2 (bath
soap on offer) to as much as chf 400-500 for hand crafted coo-coo
clocks.

I backtracked down to see some parts of the Old Town/oberdorf where
cobbled streets line from 16th century onwards.

tip- don't expect to see any of the shops open on Sunday. they close
the entire day so it's best for window shopping at best. I Like this
idea cos you see kids out cycling, boating, swimming, sightseeing with
their parents instead of hitting the shops all weekend. the shops that
are open are the restaurants & eateries so you see many people just
doing people watching or listening to the band while taking in the
Sunday. as it was a lovely day out today, girls in bikinis lined the
shores as well as part of their recreational activity.

after some shopping walked down to the main bridge called
Quaibru~cke. from there, you can feed the swans, ducks & fish while
taking in the sights. the weather was excellent -25c without the
humidity. that means you can actually escape from the heat of the sun
by simply going to the shade. had a hot dog chf5 & bratwurst chf7 for
a bite. get from the stall next to the Bellevueplatz & you get a hard
bread as part of the meal. As the bread was too hard for me I fed it
to the birds instead :) talk about killing 2 birds with 1 stone!

after a satisfying leisurely lunch, I made my way down to get a ride
up the ferris wheel nearby. I know it's touristy but it really gives
one a birds eye view of the place - quite reasonable for chf8 (4
rounds of spinning).

tip: get coins ready if you want to use the public toilets (near main
bus station at Bellevue) cos it costs chf1 & they only take chf1 or 2
chf50c. the toilets are clean & well stocked with essentials so no
complaints spending around s$1.40 to use it.

after swan feeding, I bought the daily ticket that covers the bus,
tram & see-thru boats that runs down Zu lake. quite a good deal for
boat trip cos u can hop on & off as many times & wherever you want (as
long as it's within that 24hr period stated in the ticket) this is
definitely a good way to see the city. you can either get it at the
main bus/tram station or from the conductor when you board the boat).
they also have a 1hr ticket for chf3 I think but I would get the daily
ticket if you intend to travel around Zurich for the day).

the boat ride was fantabulous! it goes down all the way to
schiffla~nde Casino before coming back all the way to Schweiz
Landesmuseum (Swiss national museum). so I dropped off at one of the
in-between stops to take a breather of 30mins before hopping back on
to continue my day trip to see the museum. the museum was fairly
interesting -it has quite some items dedicated to religious artefacts
& also showcased the skill of Swiss (clock making, glass blowing,
religious stained art etc). oh! another tip-Sunday is free museum so
do take advantage of that!!

I took a slow walk down the lake side & found myself in quaint little
streets with lovely shop displays. there was this lovely chocolate
shop called "teascher confise" near main shopping area. I got the most
excellent tiramisu ice cream for chf5.50.

ended the walking day by walking along Bahnhofstrass before taking a
tram back to the hotel.

decided to get Macs which was next to hotel before a final hot choc
from Starbucks. I know I should be taking Swiss food but I was too
tired to find / walk around. think the jet lag is finally hitting.

Macs here suits me fine as they got cheeseburger with salad &
instead of usual fries & coke. wonder why they don't have similar
options back home. costs a bomb though - chf 11 for a meal.

the sun just set down at 8pm. hitting the sack now cos hopefully will
be able to wake up fresh tomorrow.

Magdalene

day 2 (mon), 3 (tues) & 4 (wed) in Zurich

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day 2 (mon), 3 (tues) & 4 (wed)
after work, Susann was kind enough to take me on an excursion to
"Uetliberg", a mountain about 20mins by train from Zurich town centre.
it offered a spectacular view of town, lake , mountains & region. not
exactly easy to go but should be ok if you depart from the main
station at Bahnhofstrass.

at the end of the 2nd day, the legal team went down to the river to
have a drink. it's an interesting scene as we are the ones in suits &
the others already there are in their bathing suits. it's actually
open during lunchtime for people to have a swim or bath. women area
are separated from men but the men's area are now mixed. took some
salad for dinner before hitting back to the hotel.

on the afternonn of the 3rd day , went down to Schann office
(Liechtenstein) before meeting the authorities. the place was a drive
by at best but understand that it was pretty rural in any event. it
took about 1.5-2hrs from Zurich to Schann.

was at the majnstation early so had time to purchase some dinner at
the market (right inside the station). reminded me so much of London
markets which I so dearly missed).

had a bit of difficulty finding the place at the Bahnhofstras (main
station) to stamp my Swiss pass. but actually on reflection, just
follow the tourist "I" sign & it's done. the Swiss pass is a very
important document as it can make the difference between ypu staying
ob the train, bus or cruise & you bejng kicked out as it covers mainly
every mode of public transport throughout Switzerland. recommend 1st
class as less crowded & more seat choices (proved useful when you
want to be touristy & take pictures)

took the 6pm train to Interlarken - reached there around 730pm. the
backpackers hotel at interlarken was a pleasent surprise. clean,
modern & extremely friendly. all for around chf200 for 2 nights (paid
for 2pax even though stayed by myself). I chickened out of the 6
bedded room & opted to stay by myself instead with shower included.
thankfully they had rooms available as I couldn't get the room booked
over Internet. they gave out clean sheets & towel & 2 tokens/day (each
chf 3.50) for hot drinks. the bus stopped just outside the hostel & as
usual worked like clockwork according to the schedule displayed at
each bus stop. one thing I will surely miss is the efficiency of the
public transport. basically all the timings are displayed & when it
states 0832 departure, the bus or train will depart from that station
at that exact same time!!! amazing! definately addictive cos I found
myself checking my watch whenever i need to take public transport -
which I will be doing for the next few days of self-travel.

Magdalene

On way to Montreal from interlarken

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View from hostel at interlarken switzerland

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terrarium workshop at hortpark

2009-08-14T16:36:00.001+08:00

found out about this really interesting workshop done by nparks via
their newsletter. as I remembered that someone told me that this
workshop is always packed (30 per lesson), I decided to email nparks
to confirm my slot before turning up for the workshop. good memory
served me well as it was FULLLY booked.

had an interesting session with Wilson wong (head, Hort outreach) -
he's also the guy that writes on the plant column in straits times on
sat.

after an interesting short PowerPoint, he got his hands dirty doing
the demo on how to actually create a small indoor self sufficient
terrarium (small version of a green house is my best description)

my 1st personal terrarium is actually quite easy to do as all suitable
materials are available for your use. I even get to keep my terrarium
after use!! what a great deal for spending 1.5hrs of your time & $25!!

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Self-centred posting

2009-08-05T22:08:00.006+08:00

Recently had to deal with people who think the whole world (rolls eyes) revolves around them....they have problems/issues & EVERYONE has to accommodate what they feel, what they want, the date & timings of things/events etc.

So imagine the shock (& despair & injustice they feel) when I put my foot down to say "No. I am exercising my right NOT to agree with what you want me to do."

These people then think "Wow! Why can't you think of me, what I feel, how I feel, what I want?"........I think they should actually be asking themselves "Wow! What am I asking her to do?", "Does what I ask her to do hurt anyone she loves?", "Should I even be asking her to do this?", "Why am I asking her to do this when this is not about me but about someone else?"

Hmmm.....asking the right questions is important I guess & given the propensity of the people I know, all these questions will never arise in their minds in a million years *wry smile*

Why do I think this way? I an no expert so this is just my personal take.....Me thinks that it's because the mind of a self absorbed person is such that no one else matters & every event should be accommodated, felt & resolved according to what he/she wants.

I find such persons interesting (sad nonetheless but interesting) cos I bet my last dollar they don't know themselves any better in terms of wants & needs yet somehow, someone else always has to accommodate them.

Hey! I am definitely no angel myself & I am not saying that I am not self-absorbed person as well...it's a constant fight for me as well. But I think having kids has been a wake up call & constant reminder for me that others (like my children) matters more than me in the many decisions I have to make every day cos every decision I make affects them (sometimes in small & sometimes in really big ways).....Constant struggle to battle this enemy within.

http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-You-Are-Self-Absorbed has a mini test to see if you fight this enemy as well

Cartoons from www.cartoonstock.com.

My 1st attempt at online scrapbooking :) Hope you like it!

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Michael Josephson Commentary: Five Birds and Good Intentions 625.4

2009-07-07T10:45:00.002+08:00

Five birds are sitting on a telephone wire. Two decide to fly south. How many are left? Most people would say three. Actually, all five are left. You see, deciding to fly isn’t the same as doing it.

If a bird really wants to go somewhere, it’s got to point itself in the right direction, jump off the wire, flap its wings, and keep flapping until it gets there.

So it is with most things. Good intentions aren't enough. It’s not what we want, say, or think that makes things happen; it’s what we do.

I frequently think of writing thank-you, birthday, and congratulatory notes. Unfortunately, only a sad few of these good sentiments ever make it to paper. Still, if I don’t look too closely, I can delude myself into thinking that based on my good thoughts I’m a gracious and grateful person. A truer and less admirable picture of my character is drawn by my actions.

In the end, we either do or don’t do. We either make the time to do the things we want to and should do or we make excuses. As Alfred Adler said, “Life happens at the level of events, not of words. Trust movement.”

What do you want to do? Do you want to take a course, change your job, lose weight, make new friends, or spend more time with and appreciate more the ones you have?

What’s stopping you from jumping off the wire and flapping your wings?

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

Michael Josephson Commentary: Five Birds and Good Intentions 625.4

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Interesting thoughts......Words about kindness by Michael Josephson

2009-06-27T12:09:00.001+08:00

"If you were arrested for kindness, would there be enough evidence to convict you?

Some people cheer up a room by entering it, others by leaving it. What do you bring to your interactions with workmates, friends, and family? Is it encouragement, optimism, or kind words? Or is it pessimism, criticism, or cynicism?

People often forget what we say and usually what we do, but as Maya Angelou said, “They always remember how we made them feel.”

“You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.”
– Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom.”
– Theodore Isaac Rubin, M.D.

“Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true.”
– Robert Brault

interesting thought....optional suffering

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just read this... according to yoga sutras, suffering is caused by
change, unfulfilled longing, habits, and fluctuations in energy. not
even the most enlightened is immune. we can "prevent" the suffering
yet to come. the teacher says we can have pain yet not suffer. if we
accept the inevitability of life's twists & turns & find the
opportunity for growth in the struggles we face, we can prevent the
unnecessary self-inflicted suffering that comes from feelings as
guilt, blame & regret.

have a happy day ahead- in spite of the pain

watching Transformers-Revenge of the fallen tomorrow!!

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new eatery found!! ilumo @ bugis ( empire state)

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A quote....

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good read on Sunday times Pg 29

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do find the time to read the full article-here's an excerpt of the
ending paragraphs:

Stoic philosopher, Epictetus, a Greek Stoic philosoher who lived in
the first century, put it very eloquently thus: "I must die. but must
I die groaning? I must be imprisoned. but must I whine as well? I must
suffer exile. can anyone hinder me from going with a smile, and a good
courage, and at peace?"

in short, it's not what happens to you but how you react to it that
matters. people are not disturbed by particular events as such, but by
the view they take of them."

Magdalene

Let the Butterfly Struggle....gentle reminder

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Michael Josephson Commentary: Let the Butterfly Struggle 618.2
http://charactercounts.org/michael/2009/05/let_the_butterfly_strugg...

There’s a parable about a mother who discovered a butterfly struggling mightily to escape its cocoon through a tiny opening at the top. She became concerned when the creature seemed to give up after making no progress. Certain that the butterfly wouldn’t make it out without help, she enlarged the hole.

On its next try, the butterfly wriggled out easily. But the young woman’s joy turned to horror when she saw its wings were shriveled and useless. Her well-intentioned intervention had interrupted a natural process. Forcing the butterfly to squeeze though a small opening is nature’s way of assuring that blood from the creature’s body is pushed into the wings. By making it easier, she deprived the butterfly of strong wings.

Childhood, too, is a sort of cocoon. If a healthy adult is to emerge, parents must allow, even encourage, their children to struggle, make mistakes, learn from them, and pay the price for bad judgments and conduct.

Of course, good parents should protect their children from serious harm, but being overprotective can itself inflict damage. Adversity is not always an enemy. Teaching can help a young person develop wings strengthened by self-confidence and self-reliance.

Helen Keller once said, “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved.”

AWARE saga spoofs - check out these You Tubes (hilarious!!!)

2009-05-04T22:38:00.003+08:00

[latest: the Rambo video got pulled out....sigh...it's a shame cos it was great!]

wedding anniversary

2009-04-18T14:23:00.001+08:00

today's my wedding anniversary - got reminded of the time past when we
found travel documents of our stay at turi beach at batam back in
1997..the last trip before the wedding.

was thinking of how fast time flies & what has happened since then &
definately counting my blessings :)

Great mags (digitalized!)

2009-04-04T11:02:00.004+08:00

Discovered this GREAT solution to getting magazines (overseas to boot!) digitally! Website is www.zinio.com. I have tried out with Reader's Digest (US version) to see how it looks - the result is WOW! never knew that it could even be so fun!!!

PLUS points:

environmentally friendly cos no paper & the headache of finding space to keep them!!
for those who like to keep some pages - there's a print option! (haven't used it myself but the idea is cool! esp since i only keep like 2-3 pages if ever?!)
I can download up to 3 copies of the same mag - best for those who like me, use a Mac & Windows at home & a Windows comp at work (of course I read only during lunch breaks! (NOT!))
price! price! price! 13 issues of Readers Digest for USD10! (usual $38.97) - in local pricing, it's lesser but hey! I am not complaining.....besides, I love the magazine but I can't take all the trash mail that comes along with it (contests, sweepstakes etc) that is like an avalanche when you subscribe to that magazine!
you can enlarge into the page you are reading
I have downloaded some other mags for my yoga, healthy living & elle decor & found that they sometimes come with embedded videos/music!!! Hyperlinks direct to the web (no more making a webpage note to check out stuff!)

Not so cool points.....don't have titles like "Oprah", "Instyle", local magazines or even hub's fav, Man U mag. Not readable on iPhone (on-the-go)

Anyways, I get to send a copy of the mags I have subscribed to friends so send me a comment if you wanna a try!

(pic of array of mag sourced from acpmedia.com.nz)

How did you spend Earth Hour?

2009-03-30T17:24:00.003+08:00

Earth Hour came & past….How did you spend it?

For me, was at a mall & saw that many businesses did not bother with their lights or airconditioning. Fortunately I was patronising McDonalds which saw the "light at the end of the tunnel" (pun intended) & gamely switched off the lights in some parts of their place. It didn't cause the place to be less functional…in fact, it gave a nice glow to the place without the glarring white light that you usually see at Mcs. That caused me to think "Why don't Mcs consider have a schedule for dimmed lights at certain areas of their restaurants everyday?" It'll save them some money & give the Earth a breather since they contribute to the use of resources (with their individually packed food wrappers) right? The place actually looks quite inviting with dimmed lights. After all, people don't need floodlights to eat a burger or ice cream or fries anyway….

Next stop for me was Starbucks which took the Earth hour to another level by switching off ALL its lights within its premises. This resulted in a quite hilarous outcome as people were likely thinking if they were open for business at all! :) But their heart is in the right place & that's what counts…so I ordered a tall iced "Green Tea Soy Latte" to support their cause. The server was so cute as they gave both kiddos neon bracelets. (BTW if you haven't tried this "Green Tea Soy Latte", you should definitely try it - it's sumptous!)

Went back home & did an extended Earth Hour with the kids by having a lights-out:) We spent the hour before sleeping playing nice music - shining our torchlights & waving neon bracelets in the darkness for ambience.

Started by telling them stories that this is likely how their grandparents spent their childhood - in darkness with a candle to shine their night. My boy didn't take to the darkness very well initially but eventually warmed round to the idea when he saw that darkness need not be feared but can be quite fun too! In the end, both enjoyed Earth hour & now I have to do it again next Sat! :)

If you are more a picture person, click to http://www.flickr.com/groups/earthhourlive/pool/ for cool pics!

Think things differently...time to count our blessings....

2009-03-27T16:31:00.003+08:00

Got this from a friend - it's quite a nice reminder in such times (the original email has pics so if you want it, email me yah?):

"A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said "I am blind. please help." There were only a few coins in the hat.

A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words.

Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, "Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?"

The man said, "I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way. 'Today is a beautiful day and I cannot see it.' "

Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the same thing?

Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective?

Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Think differently and positively. Invite others towards good with wisdom.

Live life with no excuse and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear.

Great men say, "Life has to be an incessant process of repair and reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness…. In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must have the ticket of a good conscience."

Underwater World Overnight Stay (21-22 Mar) & pulau semakau trip (2 weeks ago)

2009-03-22T22:14:00.005+08:00

Was down at underwater world for an overnight stay with kids last night & I must say that it was quite an experience....

was registered for an exciting stay with local automobile association for 70 a piece - dropped won at 6 before gathering at the UWW seminar room for a marine talk on types of sea animals that one can find there like sea star, sea angels, jellyfish, sharks, dugong etc before we got down to serious business of dinner & a tour of the 80+ meter tunnel.

kids were pretty excited as they usually only get to see UWW during the day & not after closing time...they were basically knocking themselves out going round & round the tunnel during the free & easy time & getting themselves wet at the touch pool

after some time allocated for supper & wash up, the 50 odd campers were brought down again to the tunnel for selection of sleeping area at the tunnel. we were at the shark area on the carpeted area.

lights out at 1130 ish - whole new experience.... lying down on the hard carpeted floor was a torture for the ol' body & carpeting caused a sneezing frenzy for hub & boy. Doesn't help when the floorboard resounds with every step & you have kids running up & down the tunnel area.

Finally settled down for a "nap" as before I knew it, lights up at 730 am this morning. Had a quick wash before having breakfast. We headed down to Dolphin Lagoon for a show & a rub-down of one of the pink dolphins. It was a nice fitting ending to a very different sleep-over.

Definitely pooped after this but then again, an experience that money can't buy....just like the earlier trip that I took for my girl to Pulau Semakau (more info here) 2 weeks ago. It was definitely an eye-opener to see another side of urban Singapore where one can find diverse coral life & animal life. The inter-tidal walk started from 12 & only ended around 5-ish. Nat's quite ok with the heat...quite good considering she's so used to air-conditioning (like most kids in singapore). She's now asking when she can go there again (same thing as UWW sleepover) & I am thinking, "wait till my body recovers!"

Fresh Apple Juice....Preshafruit yum yum

2009-02-18T14:21:00.002+08:00

Discovered this really sumptous apple juice (only sold in Jasons at Raffles City)...almost like you are eating the fruit itself!! At $4.70 per bottle, it ain't cheap but the taste is really exqusite! My lil one absolutely loves the Fuji Apple (choice of apple & lemon, apple & pear, granny smith, pink lady, royal gala & of course the Fuji)...me too! Besides the taste, the bottle is really cute! Triangular!! Where can one find a triangle bottle?! Hub found another reason why he likes the bottle, it doesn't spill even if you accidentally topple over the remains (provided it's not too full)....managed to get some pics from the official website and a blog. The only crunch is the cost & the difficulty of finding the item...managed to find an online store (greengrocer) that sells the 6 in a pack but it charges $30 per delivery if you order less than $100 per order!!!

Reunion with my urut lady

2009-02-09T10:19:00.002+08:00

Last weekend had a "reunion" of sorts with my Malay urut (massage) lady as I haven't seen her for some 3 years. Thought of her off & on for past few years but hubby had difficulty calling her to recommend post-natal massages so I naturally thought she had changed her hp.She featured quite some when both my anaks were born as she massaged away the aches & pains & listened to all my pre-birth woes & post-birth fears. She was also the person my mother called 5 mins before she passed away as my mum wanted to get a massage from her....

She's a special kind of person as although she doesn't have much of an education in the usual sense, she could help relieve all sorts of aches & pains (even uplift uterus which happens after birth cos of weight from carrying baby).

Sad to say but she's literally one of her kind as after she's gone, there's no one to carry on her knowledge & skills as all her kids are not interested in the work that she does - especially when they have to wake up at wee hours in the morning to boil the herbal oils used for the massages & be at the beck & call of customers all over the island from dawn to dusk. She wants to teach her dying art but alas there's no takers for the skill - a skill that can help to chase the "wind" out of a woman's body after birth & ensure that the body doesn't suffer from aches & pains thereafter. She claims that she even knows how to make a woman fertile as the traditional thinking is that the veins are blocked (resulting in such conditions)….for me, it was her magic touch that helped ease the pain at the left side of my body (suspect uterus drop) that I have been feeling for some few days (more painful as the days go by).

I will miss her dearly if she should pass on but for now, I am so glad I found her again to drive away my aches & pains!

Do check out this website for a more detailed description of the process! (although I just got the binding & the massage)

Interesting starts to a brand new year....

2009-01-19T21:48:00.004+08:00

New stuff = new changes to morning routine

Kids start their morning school at 6a.m.

Join morning yoga sessions at True before reaching office at 9a.m.

Doing Hot Yoga has been great! I sweat buckets but it makes me feel refreshed... love it!

Barack Obama will be sworn in as America's 44th President on Tues Singapore time

Interesting times indeed!

Who would have thought that a black (Afro-American) will ascend to the highest office in the world during my lifetime? (Was hoping it would have been a woman but hey! he's pretty awesome!)

Heard him speak several times during the election & man! He's inspirational!

Some reports have downplayed his influence & asked "what can 1 man do?" My reply? "What can't one man not do?" He gives HOPE & that's mega important during such hard times when everyday can deliver a "down in the dumps" news - Lehman, AIG, then last but not least Madoff all dropping bombs after bombs of doom.

This 1 person can give hope, that's enough to lift the spirits of hundred, thousands and millions - that's good enough for me in such times. Many times when everything's down, I reach into my fav book that brought me through the tough times "Tough times never last, but Tough people do."

Let go and Let God

As children bring their broken toys
with tears for us to mend,

I brought my broken dreams to God
because He was my friend.
But then, instead of leaving Him
in peace to work alone,
I hung around and tried to help with ways
that were my own.
At last I snatched them back and cried,
"How can You be so slow?"
"My child," He said, "what could I do?
You never did let go."
(unknown)

Last Holiday for 2008.....Hello 2009!

2008-12-31T23:08:00.003+08:00

Just back from my last holiday for 2008 - Genting Highlands.

Never been there but it's bloody cold (wind factor mostly) around 18 degrees. Was under-equipped for that weather & brought only some long sleeved tops & 1 long pants....even worse for kids as only 1 set each but they aren't really adverse to the cold (I think they really liked it though). Told hub that I think I am too used to our seaside vacs as the minute we stepped out of the bus, was hit by the hordes of people that I immediately got a massive headache (i.e. grouchy). The wet weather meant that most of the guests stayed at the indoor theme park which proved to be claustrophobic as 5 of the 7 hotels were fully booked for the 3 days we stayed there. It was meant to be a vacation but I don't think I had one - am soooo glad to be home in fact. Nonetheless, must remind myself not to complain too much cos at least manage to get away from the doom & gloom that clouded the past few months.....Genting news aren't fantastic which is in a way great when one's on vacation I guess :)

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Happy New Year

If 2008 didn't bring you joy, just leave it behind
Let's ring in the new year 2009 with good things in mind

Let every bad memory that brought heartache & pain go
And let's turn a new leaf with the smell of new year's wind

Let's learn from past mistakes & make amends for 2008
Most of all, may this new year bring you lots of hope & cheer
(adapted from poem)

Have a great 2009 ahead!

Interesting Hyperlinks

2008-12-27T00:09:00.004+08:00

Here's a list of interesting reads to start off for the upcoming new year:
http://chinesefacereading.blogspot.com/
http://www.angelfire.com/id/croon/japan/china/facereading.html
http://www.jadedragon.com/articles/aow08.html

Always wanted to learn more but I am always reminded that I am student of all trades but master of none :)

After Christmas

2008-12-26T23:40:00.003+08:00

Christmas came & went like a rocket-
Had a blast trying to get stuff ready like the tree, pressies for office staff (finally settled on nice orchids for the ladies & Christmas trees for the guys)
Kiddos got their usual Ben-10 & toys & new clothes
Caught up with some ol office friends for a chit chat....planning to do a few more catch ups after the New Year
Counted my blessings for the past year including a new job, new bosses, new colleagues, fresh starts, continuing friendships, healthy living (for 2009, looking forward to starting a new exercise regime when school starts next year with morning yoga/ gym sessions) & most of all counting the blessings with the lovies of my life with me...
Wishing joy, happiness & good fortune to one & all!

My favourite foods @ fast food restaurants.......calorie alert!

2008-12-14T23:35:00.004+08:00

Here's a blog about fast food *hahaha*

Macs - breakfast: Big Breakfast definitely; other meal times: filet o fish (when I wanna feel less guilty eating Macs) & Big Mac (if I can't care less) & corn (for snacks)

Mos Burger - Terriyaki Chicken Burger

KFC - 2 piece chicken (crispy) with cheese fries (when I can't care less) or chicken oriental salad (when I want to feel good about myself)

Read this....

2008-12-12T10:48:00.003+08:00

Everyone's talking about economy slow-down, jobs being at stake etc & out comes an article from Malaysia regarding reduced leave for its civil servants to (get this) "boost productivity & efficiency" & we are talking about reducing it from a whopping 30 days to a measly 25 days here....

The Director also said "The civil servants have been given a host of incentives and other allowances.So, the Government decided that after having received so much, the civil servants must produce," (I am like duh?? You know your people are not delivering results & you continue to incentivise them??) & to end it all Malaysian government departments etc are discouraged from "spending more to "improve" the level of their service".....I mean I want to work for Malaysian's civil service!!

Full article below for your reading pleasure....

Fewer days of annual leave for new civil servants in M'sia They will only be
entitled to 25 instead of 30 days. -The Star -->
Fri, Dec 12, 2008 The Star

By Sim Leoi
Leoi
PUTRAJAYA, MALAYSIA: Come Jan 1, those joining the civil services will only be entitled to 25 instead of 30 days of annual leave regardless of their tenure of service, says Public Service Director Tan Sri Ismail Adam.

Those who are already civil servants will have a choice of reducing their annual leave by five days or not in a move by the Government to promote efficiency and productivity.
Currently, civil servants who have served more than 10 years are entitled to 30 days of leave.
Ismail said civil servants did not need to get "unduly upset" by the option as they could still choose to remain under the old scheme.
"The option is given to see if civil servants are willing to sacrifice five days of leave for their service," he said in an interview here yesterday.
"The civil servants have been given a host of incentives and other allowances.
"So, the Government decided that after having received so much, the civil servants must produce," he added.
In a circular dated Dec 1, Ismail had said civil servants who were on probation, on secondment or temporary transfer, on any type of leave and facing disciplinary action would be given the
option.
However, Ismail declined to comment if the Government had plans for other incentives in lieu of the civil servants voluntarily reducing their number of leave days. Cuepacs president Omar Osman said he would be meeting with Ismail today to seek an explanation.
Meanwhile, heads of government departments and agencies have been reminded against spending more to "improve" the level of their service to the people.
Chief Secretary to the Government Tan Sri Mohd Sidek Hassan said measures to enhance public service delivery were supposed to help the administration save money.
Speaking at the launch of the Prime Minister's Department Quality Day here yesterday, he said that currently many government agencies often created new posts, promoted existing staff
members or gave other allowances as a way to boost productivity and efficiency.

Christmas Tree Around the World

2008-12-11T11:37:00.002+08:00

Check this out!

http://www.latimes.com/travel/la-trw-xmastree-pg,0,7335460.photogallery?24

My personal favs pics above!

Perceptions......

2008-11-30T22:41:00.003+08:00

Always believed that Perceptions can be change many views...often from what actually happened to you think happened. Some examples to get the message along....

(1) At work, there was this chap that was perceived by many leaders as a rebel, someone who didn't follow the rules, didn't conform cos he always questioned the normal way of doing things.....in other words, he reminded me of me :) I was informed that I need to be wary of him & not expect much from him cos he's just a trouble-maker....I remembered myself & decided to give him a chance & now he's one of the shining stars....

(2) At home, just had a minor crisis involving my gm & the maid....maid's been trying her best to take care of her by cooking her healthy food....old lady thinks she's being mean cos she doesn't want to cook her what she wants....had to resolve the mini war that came out of that perception.....

(3) someone close to me believed that I was out to get her & her $. That meant that everything I did & didn't do was perceived as furthering that perception e.g. if I visited her, that's because I wanted to get closer to her & if I didn't visit, I was being difficult & didn't appreciate her for her being there for me. She thought of me being hard-up when I pursued my hobby & gained some experience selling them. I didn't know all of that until much later & boy was I disappointed at all that fuss for $. Gives a new perception to the whole new reason why $ isn't all it's cut out to be. It actually gave me a whole new way of viewing the commodity -

definitely not one that can't be brought to where one goes after life
not one that helps mend bridges
complicates when it becomes the focus of relationships

Growing Up....

2008-10-24T22:49:00.004+08:00

Today I had to take a "grow up" lesson....frankly what I do is really the bad guy job most of the times......other names are the gatekeeper/ stumbling block/ red tape/ enforcer.....but today I had to exercise a MAJOR decision that brought me to the full realisation on what "doing my job" really means.

To a certain extent, making the call today was really frightening & fearful for me as the consequences are wide-ranging in many respects "business -wise" & the mother of all decisions in many respects :P

Thankully had a chat with the big guy & he assured me of his support. He even said he didn't pay me to be the "yes" man! *hurray* I guess......This assurance certainly makes the decision I had to make tonnes easier to bear.

Read this MSN article (timing is perfect I must say - wondering if is there some unforeseen hand giving me some tips....hmmmm) on "How to make the bad image work for you"

p.s. if you are wondering why I picked the poisonous frog as my picture for this entry....well, that's how I felt today when I made the decision.....

Stay at Hong Kong- The Mira & Charlie Brown

2008-10-15T21:47:00.008+08:00

Stayed at this beautiful hotel in Kowloon Hong Kong called "The Mira Hong Kong".
The room at The Mira was beautiful - green & white being the principal colours. The place is heaven for gadget freaks like me cos free Wi-fi (wireless computer included with LCD TV being the screen) & automated shower screens etc.....that means you cannot be eye-sight challenged if you want to stay here as mood lighting is the name of the game :)

Took a Citybus from the airport (quite cheap HKD33 (ard SGD6) compared to HKD100+ for airport transfer.

Besides that, the place is wonderfully located near Tsim Sha Tsui MTR Station (Exit B) where the shops are open till midnight (I don't see that anywhere else in Hong Kong the whole time I was there). Love the little shops along the streets. Found a lovely cafe called "Charlie Brown" with all the furniture and fittings & figurines of the famous Snoopy, Lucy, Tweety & of course, good ol' Charlie Brown. Some pictures where even the waffles & cakes are also shaped accordingly.

Today....

2008-09-29T22:06:00.002+08:00

Today started off pretty uneventful - I didn't plan to do much in fact as ran out of ideas on what to do for my free time *hahaha* (that's what happens when one has been working non-stop for the longest time :P)

Anyways, decided will go down for a yoga session in the morning & managed to grab a little massage on the massage chair at the yoga place before that. Met hub for lunch at a nice quaint La Mien cum Xiao Long Bao place (Hua Yi) at International Building - the Xiao Long Bao there is even better than Crystal Jade one with the only other restaurant beating it for the Xiao Long Bao is the Din Tai Fung outlets.

Grabbed a nice cold drink at the new TCC at 1st floor International Building - nice place to chill for a hot day as you can see the Orchard Road human traffice from that place. The service was good & the decor of that place was interesting (not like the other TCC outlets).

Guess what?! At that time we were at TCC, the weather changed from bright & sunny to dark & cloudy....that's weather in Singapore for you....

Was on the way out when the boss of our fav foot reflex place (Footworks) told us that my fav foot reflex guy is available for a foot rub....Woo Hoo!!! That ended a perfect day for me!

Kid's 1st dental surgery

2008-09-26T23:42:00.002+08:00

Kid's 1st dental surgery occurred yesterday - pretty freaked as he had complained about having pain on his teeth one night and ended up with a swollen cheek the next morning (twice the size of his other cheek). Had made some panicky calls to the national dental clinic to schedule a check-up. Found out that the swelling was due to a decayed molar on his right cheek. *Sigh* largely due to bad oral hygiene. Felt like I failed as mom when I heard that from the doctor. That check-up was done on Wed & the surgery was scheduled on Thurs at 730 in the morning.

My baby had to be knocked out to get the offending tooth out. Pained me real bad as I had to hold his hand while he was being given the gas. Was told that the procedure to take out the offending tooth would take some time but he was done within half hour (very long half hour) - largely cos he yanked out the tube that was put down his throat to help him breathe.

He yelled at the top of his voice when he woke up from his stupor after the op. Kicked a huge fuss at the waiting area for about 1.5 hrs. Most traumatic experience & won't want to do it ever again if I can help it (crossing my fingers as he's got another offending molar on the other side).

Walk in the Park

2008-09-20T22:04:00.006+08:00

Some pics I took while walking in the park -i.e. Henderson Waves & Hortpark. The walk's a great way to spend some time with your loved one or bring along a friend to see somewhere one doesn't often see in Singapore.

Link to NParks website on park connector

2 cents regarding recent financial turmoil

2008-09-19T19:37:00.008+08:00

After seeing the latest bloodbath unfold in the financial side, I realized that investment is largely emotional affair. When markets get jitters, those who invested for reasons like stability, security, or having that retirement fund (all long term ideas mind you) will push out all those reasons aside & act emotionally (in other words, irrationally to a certain extent).

Here's my 2 cents worth on what's happening:

from what I have read & understood, the cpy just needs to pump in $ as it's credit rating got 2 notches down. But I am no expert in such stuff

even if the worst fears are true, the question is whether a bail out shld be done especially if the previous financial goals (back when you 1st got that policy) remains the same? From what I know, the local government is regarded as one of the strictest in the world when it comes to separating assets & liabilities (even when dealing with a branch of a foreign cpy like AIG). With this, I am willing to bet my last dollar that a situation will not occur where a policyholder will not get any money or get less than what he should be getting out of the policy. But then again, I am no expert.....

others have also said that given the unstable nature of current world economy, there's no certainty which other company is safe. From what I know, such mkt adjustments is shown over & over again in history & that old history lady has shown that there is always hope as such circumstances will not go on & on forever....

coffee shop talk sometimes totally baffles me esp people who encourage/put fear into the minds of friends, colleagues, relatives & encouage them to surrender their policies especially their ILPs. I do not doubt for a minute that their intentions are good but given the current situation, all bailouts come at a HUGE cost to the investor. If financial goals continue to remain long term & even if they feel (not know) that 'cash is king' in such times, withdrawal is not the best policy as far as I know. But then again, I am no expert.

The above are totally my personal views which have no basis in financial or any other deep stuff that comes along with such opinions.

1st ayurvedic treatment

2008-09-17T22:26:00.003+08:00

I had the good fortune to trying out the following 2 therapies at Century 10 at Campbell Lane this morning:

Abhyanga: Ayurvedic Warm Oil Massage
Shirodhara: Ayurvedic Bliss Therapy (pic above)

The conclusion?

Relaxing most absolutely definately - I have never felt so at peace in all my spa sessions. The feeling is totally out of this world! Clear headed, felt like I could face the world after that, light footed, walking on air, urge to only eat vege after that (go figure!)
Oily definately - I needed a good hair wash at the hairdressers thereafter LOL
Going back for more? Yes! Yes! Yes! In fact, booked for another session next week (same 2 therapies plus "Bashpa Swedana: Full Body Herbal Steam Therapy".

Info on various therapies offered

1st day of 1 month break

2008-09-12T21:39:00.003+08:00

Today is the 1st day of my 1 month break from my ol job & before I start on my new place. It's great to wake up this morning not having to rush to go to work. I had the time to talk to my kids in the morning instead of rushing them to get them ready.

It's also frightening at the same time as this is the 1st time I am not working for such a long time (previously in-between job breaks were non-existent as essentially was a Fri being the last day & starting work the Monday after). But as usual, the fright is fast wearing off as I will be filling my days with yoga, exercise & pampering myself major (e.g. vacation, spas, pedi & mani, hair, tea etc) LOL.

Great Sushi place!!!

2008-08-25T22:48:00.004+08:00

Will be regretting that I ever blogged this but here goes.....the BEST sushi place I ever got to know & my belly's grumbling every week (specifically on Tuesday as that's my swim day & pig out day all rolled into 1.

Found this hyperlink to blog that says it all..... http://yum.sg/restaurants/fish_mart_sakuraya_parkway_parade/

Yummy delicious & best sushi ever tasted....MUST TRYS:
potato salad
salmon belly
handrolls especially the seafood salad one
fresh scallop

Psst - you see Sakae on the same floor & it's at the end of that same row:)

Addition on 1 Sep 08:
add on to the list of must trys:
Tofu salad - cold appertiser but absolutely deeeelicious

Me closing a chapter

2008-08-24T17:44:00.004+08:00

I finally closed a chapter - was asked by my staff on whether it was true that I was leaving just last week & even though it broke my heart to answer that question to that person (as we work quite closely together over the past year or so), I had to say "yes".

"What did I achieve in that year at my current position?"

That was what I asked myself when the staff went on to ask "What we going to do now once you are gone?"

I told him that he & everyone else will continue with what they do best.
I told him that the one thing I believe I have achieved is to ask "Why?" to current processes & procedures (i.e. the way we do things) & showing that there's always another way to do things (the alternative may not be the right way but there's always another way)
I have asked for changes to processes that have been in place since the start of the department including challenging the "that's the way it is done" mentality.
I have lost & won some battles but at the end of my song, it is really "I did it my way".

"What have I learnt about myself for the past year?"

This is what I asked myself when I was chatting with a close friend yesterday.

I have never thought that I could lead a team of 30 simply because my earlier departments have always been quite small.
I never knew what was my leadership style......
I have since found out that I take on the style of a forward-thinking person i.e. always anticipating change & looking at processes/ procedures that will fit future numbers at least months/years ahead & of course, challenging norms/ breaking new ground.

It has been an interesting year & the experiences will stay with me......

Happiness

2008-08-24T17:36:00.005+08:00

Happiness is watching the kids play - knowing that the time with them will never come again...
Happiness is enjoying where we are - at that particular place & time & knowing there's no other place we are meant to be....
Happiness is being able to count my blessings e.g. ability to breathe, walk, waking up in the mornings, giving a hug to my kids & many many more blessings for each day...
Happiness is just being....

Jewel's onboard...so is Crystal

2008-08-17T22:01:00.006+08:00

Found a lovely little bunny today....
Lovely shade of grey mixed with silver.
JEWEL's her name because she's a gem to behold.
Cute as a little bunny & cuddly like a teddy
Ryan loves the Jewel & can't wait to play with her
Natalie talks non-stop about her & can't wait to hold her
Daddy's beaming from ear to ear cos he finally has company again on his late night TV
Mommy likes rabbits which are cute & cuddly....can't wait to bring the white shaded friend home tomorrow - her name will be CRYSTAL!

Here's 1 video & pic....

Embarking on a new direction

2008-08-14T21:52:00.002+08:00

I am in the final stages of embarking into a new direction - career-wise. To a certain extent, am quite sad as I have built nice relationships with the people I worked for & with for the past 5 over years but the new place simply posed too many opportunities for me to ignore.

Going back to my roots in my new place but also many exciting challenges ahead :)
Reporting direct to the main man in my new place & so far, I enjoy the communication process as it's been quite open (European style I think suits me much better than American style to a certain extent).
Speed of things definitely faster in my new environment but it suits me fine.
Volume is not the name of the game but rather quality of work counts - which also suits me fine.
My current place has its daily challenges e.g. TAT, management which will not be seen at my new place. Judging from the information given during the meetings, I will be looking at fewer cases but more challenging tie-ups which is both exciting & scary at the same time :)

My current place has emotional ties with me & of course, the familiarity of knowing how things work does help but my gut is telling me it'll a good move & I am going with that....

Wish me Luck!

Picked the eagle shot as it speaks of how I am feeling right now :)

my heart's broken....

2008-08-10T23:33:00.003+08:00

was not sure how to blog this cos I know I am not the sentimental type .... at least not as far as it comes to pets but I must say that my heart's broken when the pet rabbit that I got for the kids died last Sunday (exactly 2 weeks after we got it from the pet shop).....I've had my fair share of pets & mind you, I really cried when my cat, Boxy passed away some years ago (due to old age).... but what surprised me for Toffee was that this little girl was only with us for a mere 2 weeks before she died (unfortunately gasping for air at the end after having some stomach problems for the afternoon)....sigh...didn't even have time to take a nice photo of Toffee *my US lop-earred rabbit*

25 Aug 08: Update - managed to find a video which shows Toffee (unfortuantely greedy state) :)

Primary 1 registration

2008-07-19T22:26:00.003+08:00

This week has been a harrowing experience as it's Pri 1 registration week for Singapore (I am in phase 2B as religion is considered a priority to enter into certain schools). Initially did the registration at a school nearby my place after waiting some 2 hrs in line (christian boys). Unfortunately, the wait was in vain as was informed the next day that the number of applications in that school far exceeded the spaces allocated & hub & i only had another chance to register at another christian boy school in the same phase. After a couple of phone calls & a few hours of waiting at another christian boys school, we finally managed to firm up the registration.

Was asked by some friends why the need to register into a christian boys school when there's a very famous school (non christian) just down the road. For me, it was more about a feeling to a certain extent & heritage in another way as hub & i were both educated in christian schools which were single gender (up until college).

I can't explain why but I hold the hope that if my child is educated in a reasonably well christian school, human values (rather than simply academia) is integrated as part of the child's make-up. In the end, for me, at the end of the day, I would rather my child be able to survive in the world hopefully with values that will stay with him for his lifetime & be a positive & contributing person (as opposed to just a brainy kid with limited values) that will help him/her survive the many many years after school.

True Friends

2008-05-25T22:46:00.001+08:00

True Friends- Unknown

Happy Week Ahead!

Maldives....a paradise on earth

2008-04-22T21:03:00.018+08:00

What I absolutely love about this vacation:

nature & time with my hub & my book reading ....

Now for the all-time list:

The glorious lovely all day sun....
the never ending sea tides & powdery white sand....
the wonderful fishes that swim around you as if you are part of them in the ocean....
the lovely wonderfully shaped sea shells that only nature can produce. managed to get a nice variety that kids will be delighted with...
the beautiful beach with endless sea that goes on for as far as the eye can see....
the warm soft rain in the afternoons....
the time with hubby cos it's been a long time since we had time spent together just being with each other without the phone or Internet..... just enjoying each other's company....
the fact that you can see the clear water & white sand below even if you are standing in water up above your head.......
the fishes that resembles promfrets that swim in schools so near to the shore (around ankle deep water).....
beautiful pockets of coral that still teems with fish even if it is the only one standing in the vast area......
the pair of yellow finned fish that swam next to hub & me for most of the scuba diving experience. schools after schools of fish.....
dinner by the moon light with prawns so fresh & a platter of meat cooked to perfection.....
hubby's gift of song from "Don Williams - You're my best friend" with words that made me cry & love my hub all the more....the lyrics are:

You placed gold on my finger
You brought love life I've never known
You gave life to our children
And to me, a reason to go on.

You're my bread when I'm hungry
You're my shelter from troubled winds
You're my anchor in life's ocean
But most of all, you're my best friend

When I need hope and inspiration
You're always strong when I'm tired and weak
I could search this whole world over
You'd still be everything that I need.

Last but not least, I actually managed to read 2 books -"Eat, Pray, Love" (about a woman who travelled to Italy. India & Bali in search of what is true for her - what better to read a trip book when one is on a trip :)) & "The Saint, the Surfer & the CEO" by Robin Sharma (a self-realization book of what life's purpose & how to live fulfilling lives.n many ways, both books remind me about another fav book, "Conversations with God" by Neale Donald Walsh

Messages to remind me of the wonderful book adventures taken for this trip.....

"When the student is ready, the teacher appears."
"Human reaction either stems from love or fear - nothing else"
"Joy, truth & love shows us which messages are divine messages"
"Our journeys are always what benefits others as service for other are our common goals"
"Each of us are perfect in ourselves. "
"We are unhapy the farther we are not living out our destiny. We innately know as we are all in the process of self discovery more like remembering what we are. We are not learning anything new as what we know lies deep in our hearts."

"The Monk who sold his Ferrari" by Robin Sharma

2008-04-12T22:23:00.003+08:00

Read this book recently - must say that it was the title that 1st got hub's attention. Surprisingly he bought the book (usually he's not into the self-help books - that's more my thing :)) & recommended me reading it.....as usual, was juggling reading about 4 books at that time so didn't manage to get down to this book till some time later.

The book's easy reading cos got storyline infused into the "teachings" - a bit zen-like but not too overpowering. The ideas are quite interesting although being a self-help book junkie, the teachings have been taught earlier in other books like "One Minute Millionaire", various books by Og Mandino & Neale Donald Walsh.....

Quite a nice read with easy to recall concepts.....some reviewers have stated that the book has life changing concepts...from what i see on its impact on hub, i would say it has made him & me more aware of what influences or has an impact on deeds & words......

Siloso Beach Getaway

2008-03-16T22:16:00.005+08:00

Just had a nice getaway at Siloso Beach Sentosa (kids holiday cos too busy at work to take leave) - definitely one of my fav places in S'pore....loved the breakfast served (what can beat fresh croissants baked in front of you & nice chilled fruits kept in the fridge?)....saw "Songs of the Sea" & found that it quite entertaining... topped off with a nice beautiful sunset...what more can I ask for a mini-vac?

Back from 2-weeks secondment

2008-03-10T21:35:00.004+08:00

Back from my 2-week secondment in HK....boy! this is the LONGEST time I have been away from my family & the most unusual way to boot! Oft had to remind myself why I was given the chance to be there learning from my Home Office side & my Hong kong counterparts.....coldest period that I have experienced in all trips to HK...did loads of self-exploration as got loads of time to myself for the 2 weeks..I think I also can almost say that I've been there done that - took all available means of transport in HK (ferry, MTR, small bus, normal bus & cable car)...even tried some hiking to boot :)

Here's some shots from my 3 hrs hiking (done that & won't be doing that anytime soon again *hahaha8) & my cable car experience (exhilarating as foggy & almost surreal experience being up there in the clouds):

flower show at Sentosa 2008

2008-02-09T22:41:00.001+08:00

Spent about an hour in one of CNY hols at the Sentosa's flower show...pretty great effort considering the heat & scorching sun....it was nice but really crowded as throngs of people (mostly Chinese tourists naturally) flocked to take photos with the giant flower displays stretching from one end of impian station to beach station. Overall great effort & lovely displays...pity about the heat though....drop down if you have the time cos it's only till next week!

Growing old...

2008-02-02T23:24:00.000+08:00

Decided to do this post as just came back from birthday celebrations for hub's friend's dad who turned 80 last week....got me thinking of where I want to be when I am 80 (if I live that long that is...;)

Hopefully Life at 80 for me will be as follows:

limbs intact & in working order

brain intact & in working order

able to eat, laugh & be merry

have a group of people i love around me & loving to be around me

What do you want to be life for you at 80?

A wonderful break at BKK over Christmas

2008-01-05T23:40:00.000+08:00

Was in BKK over the Christmas break all the way till New Year's Eve...this time spent some time in the Thai countryside....was an eye-opener as who would have thought that in just 1 hr away from BKK city centre, there will fresh crisp air with wineries, horse riding, Thai cowboys, farmstays, Thai country music & waterfalls?

The pictures show some fantastic R&R....very refreshed from the whole experience & looking forward to a great 2008!

43 inspirational quotes - Mr Blue Sky. ELO.. loved everyone of it!

2007-12-16T23:22:00.000+08:00

Company D & D

2007-12-09T23:29:00.000+08:00

Always grabbed the opportunity to dress up for my company's D&D (as funky as possible will be good thank you :)) Always had my funky hair-do (wigs no less) but this year's different cos had to cover my head cos I was well "in the character" so to speak.....
did my scary make-up done really last minute but it really turned out well scary that the make-up artist was scared that i won't go along with it :)

Kudos to everyone who went along with being crazy for the night :)

Birthday Makan at Dempsey road

2007-10-27T21:41:00.000+08:00

It is nice stepping into PS Cafe (Dempsey Road) for the 1st time & what better than to have my birthday dinner there....

For starters, had corn & chicken chowder soup - lovely cream soup with some nice toast. Had marvellicious soft tender Tenderloin with bacon (medium well done to perfection) for main meal. Just had to leave some space for a nice choc 3" cake nicely matched with vanillia ice cream (which actually tasted quite wonderful without the usual ice within that you find in other restaurants' made ice cream). Family was there tucking into fish & chips (signature dish) & fish steak...which were lovely as well....all in all, a good meal with good company. Matched with good service staff & ambience & you've got a winning place that I will go back again & again...:)

PS Picture from http://sparklette.net/archives/ps-cafe-dine-in-seclusion/

Heard that there's a nice Ben & Jerry's round the corner....hmmm kids will definately love such a place so will definately make my way there another day :)

Upcoming Birthday celebrations......

2007-10-19T22:02:00.000+08:00

Oh! oh! just realised the Big Birthday's coming up.....am not usually fussed about it except that at least hubby must remember that day :)

Hubby's been nice - got me an iPhone for my birthday knowing the geek in me that will drool over the whole cool factor......

What's not to drool eh? Except that the unlocking bit takes some getting used to *Hahaha*

Had to redo the unlocking when did a software update.....after that read about some lawsuit (in US of course) re the iPhone becoming an iBrick after the update (http://www.computing.co.uk/vnunet/news/2200760/apple-faces-class-action-suit)

Now back to using the cool gadget......Tata! :)

Results of Personality Assessment via online test

2007-08-19T22:32:00.000+08:00

Was bored from all the leadership talk.....I did a personality test online- here's the results:

Your personality can best be described as choleric.
You are the extrovert, the doer and the optimist. [can't really figure that extrovert/ optimist parts :p]

STRENGTH

Your personality strengths:

You are a born leader, dynamic and active and have a compulsive need for change.
You often feel that you must correct wrongs.

You are strong-willed and decisive, independent and self-sufficient. You are not easily discouraged and can be unemotional when necessary.

You are capable of running anything and exude confidence.

Your strengths at home

You are an expert in exerting sound leadership, establishing goals and able to motivate the family in to action.
You always know the right answer and organise the household.

Your strengths at work

You are very goal oriented, see the whole picture and organise well.
You seek practical solutions to problems and move quickly to action.

You delegate work but insist on productivity.

You make the goals, stimulate activity and thrive on opposition.

Your strengths in relationships

You have little need for friends and will work for group activity.
You often lead from the front, organise and are usually right.

You excel during emergencies.

WEAKNESS

Your personality weaknesses

You can be bossy and impatient. You are quick tempered, can't relax and can be too impetuous.
You enjoy controversy and arguments and won't give up when losing.

You can come on too strong, are inflexible and uncomplimentary.

You dislike tears and emotions and are generally unsympathetic. [this is really true BTW...i cringe if anyone cries in front of me esp. if he/she was wrong to start off...]

Your weaknesses at home
You tend to over dominate, are too busy for your family and will often give answers too quickly.
You are impatient with poor performance and won't let children relax if you have any. You are likely to send them in to depression. [this is really true BTW...i must remember NOT to do this man!]

Your weaknesses at work
You have little tolerance for mistakes, however, you don't analyse details yourself, are bored by trivia and can often make rash decisions.
You can be rude and tactless and often manipulate people.
You are demanding of others and believe that the end justifies the means.
Work may become the driving force in your life and you demand loyalty in the ranks.

Your weaknesses in relationships
You tend to use people and dominate others. You make decisions on other people's behalf and you know everything.
You can do everything better, are too independent and are overly possessive of friends and mate.
You can't say sorry and, although you may often be right, you can become unpopular.

Must take all the above advice & constantly remind myself if my weaknesses so that I can become a better person! :)

Leadership...

2007-08-19T21:38:00.000+08:00

Attended a leadership course over the last 2 days at Sentosa....heartening to know that there's some help for me in my new expanded job scope that I will be taking on for the near future.....

The course was a brief intro to the organisation for the selected group of 21 guys and girls. We had a crash course on leadership skills for a day before having a sort of "amazing race" for the 2nd day. Each of the 7 team members had a chance to be a leader to help the team to find clues... when my turn came as the leader, my team was faced with many clues (in fact the most we found in an area for that day). Everyone had mixed ideas on what should be the right answer. When faced with the choices, I said "I am the leader, I decide." In many ways, that short statement explained my leadership style I guess :)

I realised that I need a LOT of help to manage a team of 30 pax in my new job scope...so far throughout my working life, I have only had to deal with max 5-6 pax in my team (departments have always been lean for the companies I have worked for some reason :P) have bought a few management/leadership books & crossing fingers that my brain will be working from all the "dry" management mumbo jumbo LOL

Change...

2007-08-13T21:33:00.000+08:00

(image from www.medhunters.com)

Got some news just before the National holidays which caught me somewhat by surprise.....in effect my departure from my current position will be accelerated to something more akin to what I was doing...however the speed of things to come is unexpected as my boss was thinking of transferring me as early as this week!

Fortunately, I had some time to think it over by laying by the pool side of The Pulai Desaru. I think somehow my subconcsious knew my fears and I didn't even realise that I brought along my fav book for such uncertain times i.e. "Who moved my cheese?" by Spencer Johnson. The apprehension of moving at this pt in time is rather cos of recent I have become more involved in a recent project that will stretch what I know....so in a way enjoying myself too much I guess...

The other issue is of course I will need to travel to work to another part of the island (which is great only if I live in the east which I used to but I no longer!) Tried estimating the time taken for me to get down to the east which is around 1.5 hrs from my house!

Let change be something to look forward to!

Mother's Day.....

2007-05-13T23:32:00.000+08:00

Mother's Day just came & past.....this year somewhat have stirred up some mixed feelings..... In a way it's bittersweet cos many things have happened between my late mum & me (mostly unfortunate misunderstandings which only really got somewhat resolved around the time she was dying from cancer).

I heard the song that she sang to me when I was only 3 or 4 at mass last week (she never sang to me after that age as far as I can remember)...."God is dwelling in my heart". Although she singlehandedly raised me up, ultimately, her role switched from that of being a nurturer/caregiver to that of just being a provider. In many ways, she took on a traditional role of a "dad" more than a "mom" to me.

As such, to me, mother's day has been for some time been more to thank my grandma more than my mum cos my grandmother became my nurturer & caregiver.....she held me when i fell down, she nursed me when i was sick, she was my mentor, my guide, the one I could always count on....she is also the one now lying in a hospital bed at SGH.

It pains me to see my grandmother this way. The rational me knows that at this grand old age of 95, she will leave me at any time. But this reality hits harder when I see her lying on that hospital bed instead of being at home with me. I am sure when the time comes, I will not be "ready" for it....

Olivia Newton John Concert 2007...Love Is Letting Go Of Fear

2007-05-13T23:22:00.000+08:00

Been wanting to blog re the ONJ concert in Spore but only now have the chance cos my mac's been at the service centre...

Personally it was the BEST concert I have ever been. She was marvelous - still have that trademark raspy voice, the "i am so heartbroken" way of singing & someone who actually sang the songs that mattered. Not surprisingly, she touched many with her love songs & her inspirational songs (after surviving breast cancer). The Catholic news featured her recently at http://www.onlyolivia.com/memorabilia/mags/2007/070513_catholic-news_sm.html....sorry something wrong with my uploading from Firefox...

Besides her gd ol favs, she of course sang some songs from her latest album "Grace & Gratitude". I remembered her singing this one song called ""Love Is Letting Go Of Fear" & I have reproduced the wonderful lyrics below:

The pain is something that you can't ignore.
You're always wondering what the hurt is for.
Your heart feels something that you cant explain.
You yearn for love but you are afraid to change.

Remember your wounded bird still sings.
Remember that faith has tiny wings.

(chorus)
Love is letting go of fear.
Love is letting go of doubt.
Love is letting go of chains
That tie your spirit down and
Love is letting of of pain.
Love is learning how to dance
Inside the light again.

You're always haunted by the love you lost.
You're scared that you'll forever pay the cost.
You believe this is the bitter end.
Better lonely than be heard again.

Remember there is always one more chance.
Remember your love's the only dance."

Perfectionist....

2007-04-06T23:38:00.000+08:00

I have heard myself being called a "Perfectionist" at several points in my life. I am also guilty of saying this to some friends. Found an online test - just had to take that test to see how true it is. This is what Discovery Heath has to say about a perfectionist ....happy testing!

About Perfectionism

Perfectionism can be a healthy quality that drives a person to try his/her best and to make the effort to excel. Some people, however, take the strive for perfection too far...and there is a price to pay. Extreme perfectionists are forever dissatisfied; they can never fulfill their own expectations so, in their own eyes, they are always failures. Chronic perfectionism is driven by deep-seated feelings of inferiority and self-hate, and by nature it reinforces a negative self-image. Performing tasks or fulfilling goals becomes intimidating and unpleasant, since the perfectionist knows deep down that the finished product will never meet his/her expectations. So the perfectionist might have problems with procrastination. Perfectionism, then, can become a double-edged sword - the perfectionist is driven by a desire to succeed, as well as a fear of failure which leaves him/her paralyzed.

In all realms, striving for excellence can be beneficial and lead to a fulfilling professional and personal life. Accepting nothing less than excellence, on the other hand, can be emotionally scarring.

For anyone interested to know the results of my test...here it is :) good to know that i m only borderline extreme yah? :)

Results of Your Perfectionism Test

Perfectionism

Your score = 73

What does your score mean?
According to this test, you have some perfectionist tendencies that may be making you unnecessarily unhappy. You sometimes set high standards that are difficult to meet; either you impose those expectations on yourself, others, or a combination of the two. You may even think that others expect you to be perfect. While a desire to do your very best and strive to reach your full potential can bring you personal fulfillment, you have to learn when good is 'good enough'. It's important that you strengthen your ability to distinguish between reasonable aspirations and unrealistic demands. When you set unattainable objectives, you are being cruel to yourself and denying yourself the rewards and self-acceptance that you deserve.

Go on....take the test & post the results on your blog....;)

Closure....

2007-03-08T21:23:00.000+08:00

Closure is a oft-used word to describe an end to a usually painful experience.

Recently my understanding of this word has been tested by a recent experience of my hub. After some 3 yrs of agonizing wait involving the all impt "not knowing what's going to happen to me", he (and me) finally got closure via a judgement made by 3 supposed wise men.

The decision was a harsh one given that it was noted that it was a one-off event BUT for what it's worth, it gave closure. Closure because it allowed my hub to put in place his work plans for the next 1+ yrs....plans which were in a way dependant on this outcome. Closure for me cos I now know how to plan for the family....

I must admit I was saddened that he can't continue with what he has been doing for the past 10+ years of his life but i try to help him by looking things on the bright side. It's frightening for both of us cos he basically knows how to do this 1 job only to be told he can't do it for the next 1+year.....the blessings i have so far counted for him are:

he is not too old to start looking for something else - at least not in heart and mind. he's not really learning new tricks but in a way adapting his work to new environment. He thinks his new environment is better as it's anything goes from now on without outside inhibitions or restrictions.
in the process of this journey, he found out who his friends are. I am glad....

Friends who basically stood by him, to comfort him - including spending sleepless nights & many many hours preparing for the case & those who couldn't sleep just because they were worrying about the outcome.
Unfortunately or fortunately, he also found out those who took flight at the sight of any "danger"...... although it was terribly hard for him to experience that type of betrayal of friendship but it's part of life's lessons & better now than later when you really need to count on that person.
A friend who got him an air ticket just because & another who travelled from one end of the island to another to just have drinks with him & see how he was......

He sent me a message earlier to thank me for being there for him.....being strong for him. Essentially that's the only way I know how to cope....following life's disappointments and setbacks, comes the strength and the resilience - this is my grandma's life lesson "Only when I believe that I am down will everyone else see me as downtrodden."
& our vows are "to walk together thru good times & bad times....."

Finally I gave hub a challenge to show those who brought him down this time round that he's still standing & on top of that, make a success out of this period.

Wish us luck!

Great Books in my world....Conversations with God

2007-03-02T23:13:00.000+08:00

I am a bit of a bookie...have had my nose buried in books for as long as I remember. Of recent, I have read & recently re-read some of my books. Generally mysteries don't really interest me, horror books scares me; romance books bores me to death & well, that leaves vy much with feel good/self-help books after taking out all of that isn't it? :)

I have recently got myself an ebook of my fav book "Conversations with God - an uncommon dialogue" Hearing the book is better than reading it as I cannot get over the fact that the content speaks to me a way i can't really explain why.

Raised as a Christian, the book goes against all that I have been taught all my life about the BIG questions concerning God, values, life yet somehow hearing the book still surprises me as much as the 1st time i read it. Here's what Amazon said about the book.....

Blasphemy! Heresy! Who does this man think he is, claiming to speak directly to God?! Jesus did it, Muhammad did it, the Jewish prophets did it, but none of their Gods had the sardonic wit or raw verve of Prophet Walsch's God. Neale Donald Walsch isn't claiming to be the Messiah of a new religion, just a frustrated man who sat down one day with pen in his hand and some tough questions in his heart. As he wrote his questions to God, he realized that God was answering them... directly... through Walsch's pen. The result, far from the apocalyptic predictions or cultic eccentricities you might expect, turns out to be matter-fact, in-your-face wisdom on how to get by in life while remaining true to yourself and your spirituality.

For the rest who have read the book but dismissed it as blasphemy or simply ridiculous, it's ok....... although I urge that you re-read the book, hopefully you will be able to read it at least 1 time with an open mind.

For me, deep down, I know I really want what the book says to be true i.e. that God is all loving, all powerful & not vengeful or at least one who will cast my soul to eternal hell once I step out of the boundaries.

Read with your heart and soul (not mind) & then decide - even f the book is all nonsense, wouldn't it be wonderful if God is just like how Neale Donald Walsh described him to be? to me, that thought is why i highly recommend the book to all, whatever is your religion. The best passage is the parable on the little soul and the sun.

Next posting will likely be on what is another great author to me i.e. Mitch Albom as I just read his recent book, "for one more day".....or maybe on something more light-hearted like "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" by John Gray.....until another posting......Adieu!

did my old body a favour....

2007-02-16T23:43:00.000+08:00

Finally did a favour to my ol' body & signed up for yoga classes again. No 'ifs' no 'buts' no 'too far away' cos it's just next to my office literally. Body's been crying for help cos the slightest efforts requires HUGE huffing & puffing. So far, it's been 1 week & I have been faithfully going for at least 2 classes during my lunch breaks.

1st class was a breathing class "Pranayama"- Yes, you read it right "Breathing" as "air in-air out". But man! That class was a toughie!! I didn't know breathing or asking my lungs to work is actually WORK! but after that 1 class, I did feel better about myself. I know I know it's too early to tell with 1 class but hey! I can do self-motivation right? :)

2nd class was supposed to be yoga therapy for those bodies like mine that suffers from back ache, shoulder ache & neck aches. Didn't really enjoy that class cos it was too slow plus I was too used to my previous yoga instructor (loooooongg time ago) that went step by step by breathing into the yoga pose as opposed to the current instructor that went on the basis of "put this foot here & that foot there & turn!"

For those not too familiar with yoga, hop over to wikipedia for a snap shot. To the rest of us who are doing our bodies a disservice by not exercising (moi included) - do give yoga or any other exercises a try cos at most it's an hour a week.

NAMASTE

BabyGem's on retail... at Senteurs de Provence (Millenia Walk)

2007-01-28T23:42:00.000+08:00

I have finally dived into retail...... My BabyGem watch items are now on sale at a nice quaint little shop called "Senteurs de Provence" at #01-57B Millenia Walk (Tel:63344163).

Elaine, the lady boss who happened to be an ol' college schoolmate was kind enuf to give me some space at her shop to display my pieces. Her opening hours are Mon - Sun: 10.30am - 9.30pm.

More details at my BG blog....do try to go down for a look-see cos Elaine's body cream & french perfumes are to die-for!

New Year Resolution.....

2006-12-30T23:41:00.000+08:00

Song Lyrics of "The Rose"

Some say love it is a river
That drowns the tender reed
Some say love it is a razer
That leaves your soul to blead

Some say love it is a hunger
an endless aching need
I say love it is a flower
and you it's only seed

It's the heart afraid of breaking
that never learns to dance
It's the dream afraid of waking
That never takes the chance
It's the one who won't be taken
Who cannot seem to give
And the soul afraid of dying
That never learns to live

When the night has been too lonely
And the road has been too long
And you think that love is only
For the lucky and the strong
Just remember in the winter
Far beneath the bitter snows
Lies the seed
That with the sun's love
In the spring
Becomes the rose

My only new year's resolution is to remind myself of the lyrics of this song as personally, once you start loving, that's when everything falls into place & all work & sacrifices are worthwhile....

HAPPY NEW 2007 to one & all!

Alila Manggis, Bali Trip

2006-12-30T22:43:00.000+08:00

Back to the dreary side of rain in Spore after 4 whole days of glorious sunshine in Bali - Alila Manggis to be specific (East Bali). Thankfully nothing happened during the time we were there....

We were lucky to have been blessed throughout our stay there with more than enough sunshine to re-charge the body batteries with loads of r&r cos the resort that we stayed in was far from town i.e. not walking distance (15 min car ride) & no other shopping streets around the resort. It was basically "wake-up - breakfast- pool- lunch - pool/nap -dinner -dreamland" for the past 4 days. This life suits me fine after so much of rushing around for the past few centuries *hahaha* a lil exaggeration doesn't hurt no one yah?;)

However, with a view like the pic below every evening at sunset from my room almost every evening, who can ask for more yah?

We had our usual holiday massage at the famous Spa Alila (related to an earlier post of spa at Alila Ubud). Thankfully, the spa was part of the package deal we got from Garuda cos they got their prices in USD! Had a fun time - love to be back there sometime soon (I hope)! :)

Upcoming Trip to Bali

2006-12-23T14:48:00.000+08:00

Arising from the recent bomb threats following the acquittal of Bashir, there has been heightened security listing for Indonesia (in particular Bali) for the Christmas and New Year season. This means that hubby & i are put in a position where we have to consider cancelling our trip to Bali starting tomorrow.

After discussions with the travel agent and amongst ourselves, given the fact that the agent informed us that we are the only one who have expressed concerns on travelling there, we decided to go ahead with our Christmas trip, bearing in mind that we have to avoid the touristy places like Kuta and that the resort that we have chosen is far from the maddening crowd as well.

Nonetheless, it's a shame that the beautiful island (of which we have very fond memories of) will be again subjected to such unfairness.

Am looking forward to 4 days of sun and sand with the kids, at Alila Manggis away from the Christmas crowd here in Spore & a bit of r & r.

Hopefully the island will be spared of the gloom that they have experienced for the past few years.....

For more info, please read the news article on New Bali threat as Bashir is cleared

meus sensa

More stories about my travels in Thailand....

Plearnwan - Hua Hin Bangkok

Pics from Santana Concert March 2011 (BKK)

Time flew by from July 2010 to Jan 2011....

iPad phenomenon

Chinese Tingkat Tour 2010 (Singapore Food Festival)

Farewell to Bhutan

Bhutan Trek from days 5-7 in Bhutan i.e. 16-18 June 2010

Bhutan trip 11-20 June 2010 - Days 3 & 4

Bhutan trip 11-20 June 2010 - Day 2

Bhutan trip 11-20 June 2010 - Day 1

What I have been up to?

Segway is way cool!

Days of Museum hopping

Eighteen Random Rules of Life 656.2

thanks for your well wishes!

Nice words from Cheryl Richardson's "Uncertainty....Finding Peace Within a Storm"

A quote from Motivational Quotes

Recent trip down to my FAV place....

happy new year!!

you say it best when you say nothing at all

lovely settings to wake up to :)

best sticky rice with mango ever!!

this is heaven!! green river hill resort - Thailand

Michael Josephson "The Box Full of Love"

4 sep:

Castles in the sand

Playing tour guide @ merlion

Shot of F1 circuit

day 1 Zurich

day 2 (mon), 3 (tues) & 4 (wed) in Zurich

On way to Montreal from interlarken

View from hostel at interlarken switzerland

terrarium workshop at hortpark

Self-centred posting

My 1st attempt at online scrapbooking :) Hope you like it!

Michael Josephson Commentary: Five Birds and Good Intentions 625.4

Interesting thoughts......Words about kindness by Michael Josephson

interesting thought....optional suffering

watching Transformers-Revenge of the fallen tomorrow!!

new eatery found!! ilumo @ bugis ( empire state)

A quote....

good read on Sunday times Pg 29

Let the Butterfly Struggle....gentle reminder

AWARE saga spoofs - check out these You Tubes (hilarious!!!)

wedding anniversary

Great mags (digitalized!)

How did you spend Earth Hour?

Think things differently...time to count our blessings....

Underwater World Overnight Stay (21-22 Mar) & pulau semakau trip (2 weeks ago)

Fresh Apple Juice....Preshafruit *yum yum*

Reunion with my urut lady

Interesting starts to a brand new year....

Last Holiday for 2008.....Hello 2009!

Interesting Hyperlinks

After Christmas

My favourite foods @ fast food restaurants.......calorie alert!

Read this....

Christmas Tree Around the World

Perceptions......

Growing Up....

Stay at Hong Kong- The Mira & Charlie Brown

Today....

Kid's 1st dental surgery

Walk in the Park

2 cents regarding recent financial turmoil

1st ayurvedic treatment

Abhyanga: Ayurvedic Warm Oil Massage

Shirodhara: Ayurvedic Bliss Therapy (pic above)

1st day of 1 month break

Great Sushi place!!!

Me closing a chapter

Happiness

Jewel's onboard...so is Crystal

Embarking on a new direction

my heart's broken....

Primary 1 registration

True Friends

Maldives....a paradise on earth

Fresh Apple Juice....Preshafruit yum yum